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Tuesday 3 January 2017

26. Taking a poke at ME ... ... and if you don't agree with what's written, take a poke at me!

Now if Steve Carell had sung, Please Don't Make Fun of the Disableds as Michael Scott in the context of an episode of The Office (USA), I have to admit I might have found it funny. I might even be touched ... not sure what word might describe my feelings... amused ... yes, mildly amused that my dis-abling illness was poked at in a way that clearly was being sung by a clueless comedy character, a caricature of someone with questionable social graces and a lack of understanding of acceptable social boundaries. His use of the term 'Disableds' would then have been better placed ... within the strict confines of The Office, from the voice of a character who tries to say the PC thing but always gets it wrong. The audience would laugh at him for being inept in his use of words.

Its all in the context. I don't see Ricky Gervais as David Brent (who became Micael Scott in the American version.) He's not built up the character enough for me as Steve Carell has done in the context of the long running - very long running - USA sitcom (one of my teenagers has the box set!) Ricky Gervais is still Ricky Gervais when he's singing so it comes across perhaps as more clever-clever-cruel than I think he intends. And even more so when the song is available commercially in a collection of similar songs, so that people might ... sing along at a party?

I do see what he was intending, choosing the predictably unacceptable things to say about people with disabling conditions and letting David Brent say them grotesquely outloud cos that what his character does. Trouble is, most people do get that it's unacceptable to make fun of those who are disabled by a health condition or illness. I hope so anyway. But people don't get what's wrong with saying to ME sufferers,  'Oh you have ME. Well, I'm tired too. Everyone's tired'. People with ME hear it all the time. Not maybe as directly as that but people do tell me very very very often how tired they are ... non verbally, by actions, facial expression, text and email, verbally, face to face, behind my back but within earshot. That and many other pokes chip away at ME's credibility as a real illness. 

It's easier to have a poke at the illness than to take time to find out that it's a very serious, life destroying illness that most in society don't understand unless they're touched by it. Mention MS, Dementia, Cancer and people get the life changing enormity of these - and don't, I think, write 'funny' songs about them.  ME isn't like other illnesses that dis-able; it's a stigmatised illness that people think they can take a poke at. I'm afraid the Disableds Song gives the message that it's okay to tell people with ME that they're merely tired. It's what people already say. 

In context it's David Brent's awkward, clumsy verbal and social ineptitude; out of context it is Ricky Gervais being cruel which I don't believe he is. I read the lyrics of the song and referred to him in a tweet as the Katie Hopkins of comedy. I don't think he is. It's all in the context. Sorry, Ricky, if I've got this wrong and if cruel is what you were trying for!

Monday 2 January 2017

25. A reply to Ricky Gervias' Disableds Song


Very loosely to the tune of Mine Eyes Have Seen the Glory ... very loosely! or better still ... don't sing!


CHORUS:
  Hello my name is Ricky 
  And I'm really quite a wit
  Rhyming's very easy
  And there's no reason to quit 
  When I'm well ahead in song-writing
  The words all seem to fit
  So really very well
  That I don't see I'm writing sh..!

'Fired' rhymes with 'tired'
So let's see! There's that ME
Where folk are a tad weary
That is really just like me
So I'll disregard it kills people and devastates lives too
And carry on with rhyming 
Because that's just what I do

  Hello my name is Ricky ...

Let's have a look and use a name and see if it's still fun
'Please don't make fun of the disableds' of which Sue is one
She sometimes cannot walk or talk, and so she's just been fired
After thiry years, a job she loved, but heyho why get wired?...

...let's all laugh at Sue, she has ME It's quite a joke
That 'fired' rhymes with 'tired' so we'll take an easy poke
At Sue who's kids are growing up with mum who's just been fired
A part-time mum, in bed a lot because she's merely tired

  Hello my name is Ricky ...

Here's a photo of the lady; let's laugh at Sue who has ME
It's really quite hilarious that people cannot see
The people missing from society, from schools and from work places
Because ME is stealing life from them and hiding all their faces.